We Can All Make A Difference

In this life we all have a choice to do something better, something good, something to make a change and that is our choice and only ours to make. We can continue to critic our lives, complain about how much we may not have achieved or how there is so much more we want to do, but in all of that time we must be thankful for what we have. We must find the time to help others who are much much less fortunate than us. Our lives are created in the world we live in, where we reside, what we are touched by and how we are affected by that all. The real people are those who stretch outside of their world, take a chance on what is really unknown and touch someone who may need us in just that simple moment to make a difference for the rest of their lives.

We are built to survive in this world and adapt to our surroundings, just like animals in the rainforest and under the sea. So, if you live in New York; you will become a part of that jungle but if you live in the quiet country of a small village in France life may be simpler...whatever the case we are all the same people through and through and we can do, achieve and help people in exactly the same way if we want it. In life that is what matters, what you want in life, what you believe in and how you live your life to make a difference not for you but for others as to love unconditionally is a power which we must all strive for and I'm unsure whether how many of us really will ever achieve this in our lives.

Why are we are here? Not to spend money, buy material things, work our asses off or waste the hours of each precious day we are given!!! We are here to be, simply to be the best we can be in each of ourselves and to fully enjoy this wonderful life we have and have been given because we have been born into this world and are the age we are now, because this is how things are meant to be. We have no idea when this life for each of us will end, yet we continue to abuse it each and every day. Absolutely unreal in each and every way conceivable!!!! We could be taken away from our life as we know it tomorrow and yet we continue to abuse our lives, the people we love or don't love, it doesn't make a difference.

Take a moment each and every day to make a difference, make a change, whatever it is, it doesn't matter how small or how big....but to touch someone in a way that reaches them beyond the sights that they could have seen before that moment is truly amazing in itself. We are all amazing in our own and we are all capable of doing so much in this wonderful world. Many of us choose the path which is not good, an evil way to life by our moments which we exist and that is of course our own choice to make. But we have that and for all of you who are out there wondering what this world is truly about, it is about you, me and us! The power is in our hands to make the little changes which all of us require to continue on, to love life, to smile everyday no matter what the disaster. So what the volcano has stopped travel, shipments, people are stranded.... we are alive! Each of us alive to enjoy where we are to realise we can feel these emotions which are affecting us because of this crazy volcanic ash. The world is the power which we cannot control and for years we have abused this world! The world is in control our all of our ultimate destiny so think about that for one moment. Think about a volcano, a sunami, an earthquake, tornadoes, a hurricane and sooo much more taking affect all together and then add a meteor shower on this world as we know it which would not exist anymore.

Don't abuse the things we have been given so freely and know that each of us can make a difference; even at this point; we can make a different for us, for our children, forever. The future is not something we can control, but we sure can do our best to be our best and make our lives and others we touch....shine!!!!

Find a way to make a difference, even the smallest thing in each day you live and your life will be blessed with what the universe will give you back.

I find a way to love each and every person whom is in my world and those who are not, but may only exist outside of it to affect our world.

I simply love and that is the best I can do each and every day.

Big Love from Solares xxx

Be True to You

So, nothing that we do in life is without circumstantial affect and anyone who thinks that their actions do not have repercussions is not living in this world which is real. I love that life has so many twists and turns, but sometimes things just pose so many other things to think about when we want one particular thing so bad. The things that we decide when we are soooo young are so easy, because we are young and we do not have the maturity or level of life to understand what some of our decisions actually mean. We do not even think about what our decisions mean to life and who it may affect, because usually at the time it is only about us, adventure, enjoying life, loving the moment and everything that life has to offer.

I made a decision a very long time ago to leave my family behind and follow love, which I did and this love took me to places which I could have never imagined. I found love, adventure, friends, happiness, sadness and an awakening to a part of life which I may have never seen if I would not have just gone with my emotions. We are so driven by our emotions, but also by thinking about life so much and sometimes it so unnecessary to go to those levels of thought to not over analyse this wonderful life we live in to understand the things we'll never really understand. I do not regret anything in my life, any decisions and I appreciate that each stage of my life has allowed me to grow in such a different way that gives me experience in each of the decades we are meant to enjoy in life. Be what you are supposed to be, if its 20, be 20, if its 30, be and love your thirties and truly enjoy each stage of your life to grow and experience new adventures. Those of us who understand these levels of life and the ones who will learn, love and be more because you grow as a person, but others will want to stay 21 forever, look back at how fun their lives were, the partying, the drinking, the sex, the drugs, whatever.

What we have to remember is that our firsts are that for a reason and never, not ever will we experience our firsts on the same level again, but remember them for what they are and enjoy them also for the experience we were allowed to have. What we can control and must do is be sure that as we are growing, we make the right decisions for what we truly want at that time and then and only then can we never regret any decision, any moment and memory because we were the ones truly in charge of our destiny with a decision that we made for our own reasons and nobody else. Be in control of you, your life, your destiny and all of those amazing moments will be with you forever. Enjoy your life at every age, your first kiss, your first heartbreak, your first job, your first drink, your first 'true love' and partner in life, your first child....whatever it is at whatever age you will have your first forever. Even at the age of 80, I guarantee you that you will have a first so never, ever look back in life, but just learn from everything and enjoy everything. Always take a positive out of every situation, be happy, smile and move forward.

With each decision we make comes a whole new set of adventure and other decisions to make, but I guarantee you that if you trust yourself and the universe...your life will be fulfilled to no end. Ask the universe for the things you want in life, what you really want, don't be greedy but be true to yourself and it will all come; in time with patience.

Know that life is full of so many things that we could never expect, so day by day live your life to the best you possibly can and rewards will be there in the fact that your life is so wonderful to just be alive and that you have been allowed this time with others as part of your life before they leave this world. I am thankful for so many things in life, but mostly I am thankful to simple be in existence and part of this wonderful world that allows us to prosper as part of its existence. I am grateful for all of my wonders, discovers and emotions which carry me to new levels every single day. I appreciate all of the wonderful people in my life and the wonderous things I see each and every day of my life!

I will await for the universe to show me the way and until then I will live my life day by day until I begin to make further decisions, but the future is only a part of life and the past is something that has passed so the present is what I will focus on forever and enjoy each and every moment without stress, anxiousness or regret.

Whatever you are going through or may have gone through just live in the moment which is just right now and be thankful for those things that allow life to flourish. Remember that it is only the little things in life that make our existence so special and being true to you is what makes us grow through time to the next level of this wonderful world we call our life!!!!

Big Love from Solares and I love you all, everyone for what you truly are and I think you for being so amazing in as part of my life that you can.

Mmmmwwahhhhhh xxxxx