Sunday, November 6, 2011

Embrace Life with Everything You Have

Everywhere I seem to go or look there is negativity, people veer towards the negative side of subjects rather than looking to the positivity in whatever life brings you on your path in this world. Why is this? I ask myself this same question daily as I was once one of these people in my experience in life, but eventually I saw my error in this thinking and took the brighter side of the walk.

I have lived in different continents, travelled so many countries on this earth and this stands true in each and every location given circumstances particular to each individual but also a large emphasis on how the world affects us as individuals. I've found a way to take negativity out of my life, if it comes my way I just knock it out, kinda like a continual boxing match of life... negativity will always be here knocking at your door, but its up to you to open that door or not! I would like to be like a disease and infect everyone with my positive approach to life so that they can live to their optimum potential in whatever it is they wish to do. We as individuals are capable of so much change, so stand up, be heard and make your path one to be proud of even if it is in the littlest way; it all counts! When you put a penny in your piggy bank it starts to add up and the amount is nomimal its the fact that you are doing it!!!

I believe that no matter how bad a situation; there is always good to be found. Each instance is a lesson in which we must see clearly, find it, learn from it, move on in your life with that lesson and don't ever look back. So I guess what I'm trying to say is embrace the bad, the pain, the heartache but then let it go. Talk to your friends; those who can so dearly for you and allow them into your inner circle so that you have an opportunity to heal, but take heed in knowing that each day after this pain is a day which gets better, the pain lessens, your life gets better and it will if you truly believe in it! I have found many painful instances in life, ones which have broken my heart and to this day I look back at these and thank the universe for this as its made me a better, stronger woman to deal with this life and get the most out of it for myself and those whom I love so very much. The truth is; if things are bad; wait a minute and they will get better, they always do, but sometimes you have to hit rock bottom in order to really want your life to be better :)

I don't know if I've ever hit rock bottom but I have experienced some very dark places in life and for this darkness I'm grateful... continually keeping these instances in my memory just in case I need to go back there as a reminder of how precious life is and why I'm not there at this very moment but here, right now, in the present living this wonderful life that we are so graciously given! Indeed life is a gift and I would not take this lightly as you will never ever be given another gift like this in your entire life, it is your life!

I love my life everyday, I am thankful for my life everyday, I will enjoy my life everyday. I wish you all this same happiness and hope that you will find a way to embrace the life you have no whatever what it gives you. You never know what tomorrow brings and that is what makes life so exciting... what an adventure! Enjoy yours... :)

Sunday, May 29, 2011

A Love Like No Other

How many of us really believe in true love? How many of us know when its knocking at our door, recognize the immense sensation of total and utter surrender to it? How many of us are willing to settle for something less than what we would really see in our lives for the sake of being alone? I am proud to say that I am not one of these floating beings who lives their lives in this manner of speaking to settle, EVER!!!

When you see love in others it makes us shiver, like when you see an old couple walking down the road, hand in hand, silent but you can hear their love through the breeze as it cuts past your face. Or the innocent love of two young beings who simply cannot take their eyes of eachother, the first love of your life, the one that makes your heart beat so hard, so intensely that you think it might come right out of your chest. And then there is the love of a mother, a father a child... this love is like no other as it is a connection which is true surrender, an unconditional love for someone that you will always put before yourself, you will always worry about, you will never ever stop loving and you will have this connection far into your life, spiritual life and whatever is out there waiting for us all.

How can people not want this love that I explain? Because the simple fact is that we have all been at one point in our life - damaged goods! Each of us has taken less than we deserve, each of us has put up with things for the sake of the good things; which are not even a good balance for us in the first place. We are all initially so open, so loving, so kind... from a child we have no inhibitions and see the world with such innocence until the 'hurt' takes us over, the pain continues into the years and finally we decide to build, build and build the biggest brick wall in man kind to protect ourselves. We may not even know that we are doing it, but believe you me we are all specialists in this field. You might be the person to throw yourself out there and sleep with whoever you come across, you might be the person to make up every excuse in the book that the person who is trying to give you love isn't right for you, you might be the person who can't image being in a relationship because you have really never ever had a proper one of unity!!! We are all these people and so much more, so many of us looking for that one love who will fulfill us and allow us to flourish through life with ease. I've seen this love in many places and I feel very blessed to have been a part of it through family, friends, even strangers, but for this love I have never truly had myself.

A glimmer of this kind of love can be painful as it seems almost too good to be true, so that you may turn your back and run the other way, but don't run... the only running you should be doing is into this persons' arms. We have all been through pain, grown in ways that we sometimes cannot believe ourselves but the pride we have after the storm has passed will protect us and open our eyes when that love truly does come a knocking.

Be true to who you really are, be open to accept love again, allow yourself to fall, let yourself go and let someone in to your world. We are meant to be with one other in this life, we are meant to be with a partner who makes us feel like no other, the one that brings in the awful fear of loosing them for that fear is the one that is you not imaging your life without them. Imagine that immense feeling and let it in and then imagine not ever having that feeling because you were too scared to allow it in for fear of letting in that pain!? I myself know that this pain will be the best, most amazing pain as it is one of true love that will break you down in ways you never thought imaginable. I wait for this, I will let this in, I will allow love to my door once again and enjoy everything that this brings for at least I will know i am alive with feeling, emotion and most of all love!

Please wait and have faith in a love like no other... it is one which will transform your world to surrender in ways to one person that you have never done before. Keep your eyes open and don't look but allow this love to find you... I promise it will and you will never ever look back again! Solares Way to Love Life and everything this wonderful world has to bring.... xxx

Sunday, January 23, 2011

We are all Perfect!!!!

Wow, I never knew how hard it would be to keep up with a blog... but my last post says it all. So, its a new year and a time to think about what is ahead or what we would like to be ahead as to set our aspirations for another year. The most important thing is simply to be committed to yourself, to realise that you can't do everything at once, but to set some realistic goals for the year which are staggered throughout the year. So, listen to your mind, listen to your body and do what feels right, don't push yourself into a staggering detox on the 1st January - that's madness!!! OR throw yourself at the gym life you've never done before, because your really have never done before... that is truly the quickest way to injure yourself or cause some serious damage to your precious limbs. Do it all slowly, staggered and ease yourself into the way of life that you want forever, not just for the first month of 2011.

Ok, so easy to say hey, but I have many of those resolutions with some physical, some mental, others for work, personal and of course its all about my life. I have this one and only life on this earth for these precious years which I truly treasure. I want to do the best I possible can for this life I have been given, to do the best for my gracious DNA, my healthy body, my intelligent mind and of course my creative voices whom seem to talk to me more and more often. Remember to listen to your voices as they are the things that your subconcious is trying to remind you of, we are here, waiting for you to make your move to do what is ultimately best for you. You know that feeling when you make a decision and everything falls into place? It could be a man, it could be your work, it could be your family, it could be anything but that feeling is like other, because doors just open before your eyes. It seems as though things are happening so easily because they are and it is no coincidence; its because you made the right decision and that is what life is all about. You have a perfect life, we all have a perfect life and its up to us to continue on that path so you are your own maker. Some of us feel we'll never achieve perfection, but I tell you now that we are all perfect; we were born perfect.

I was in a shop the other day and these girls were chatting to me about the good ole' USA, saying how different states are so different and of course the age old conversation of CA came into play. They said that their opinion of CA is clearly everyone wants to be perfect, the bodies, the golden skin, the overhauls of surgical work.... WOW!!! So, I turned around and said that we are all perfect, each one of us is amazing in how we were conceived and right now, this very moment we are all perfect! The word in itself means to some; so different to what it truly should be and in my eyes perfect is simply believing in who you are, your life, your goals, your health, just simply living life in a way in which you are proud of and getting better at it, growing as a person each and every year, loving each era you are in, enjoying every age bracket and simply experiencing this great life, the earth, the world in which we live in. The greatness of God created is all, for us, to live and experience perfection!

So, think about what it is you desire this year, how can you grow to do more, get more out of life, help others, help the world, develop your being to another level in life and one in which you are truly proud of. I myself have great things ahead, so many things I know want to do that I must get moving. My whole conception of enjoyment has changed so much over the past 5 years and it is now that I truly am beginning to understand what is important to me in life, what I want out of life and a very clear direction on how I want to live my life. I wish all of this for each and every one of you, take your time, enjoy the days, months, years and remember that you are perfect, the world is perfect.... only we can alter this state in each of us and the world, we have ultimate control and can truly make a difference so find a way, find your way and make it happen! Its the best rush you will ever experience and as always love life, love yourself, love the world, just love love love and each day will get better and better! Thank you for listening, thank you for loving and all of my love to you all who need a little bit more today or any day! Little Miss 'S'! xxx

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

We Can All Make A Difference

In this life we all have a choice to do something better, something good, something to make a change and that is our choice and only ours to make. We can continue to critic our lives, complain about how much we may not have achieved or how there is so much more we want to do, but in all of that time we must be thankful for what we have. We must find the time to help others who are much much less fortunate than us. Our lives are created in the world we live in, where we reside, what we are touched by and how we are affected by that all. The real people are those who stretch outside of their world, take a chance on what is really unknown and touch someone who may need us in just that simple moment to make a difference for the rest of their lives.

We are built to survive in this world and adapt to our surroundings, just like animals in the rainforest and under the sea. So, if you live in New York; you will become a part of that jungle but if you live in the quiet country of a small village in France life may be simpler...whatever the case we are all the same people through and through and we can do, achieve and help people in exactly the same way if we want it. In life that is what matters, what you want in life, what you believe in and how you live your life to make a difference not for you but for others as to love unconditionally is a power which we must all strive for and I'm unsure whether how many of us really will ever achieve this in our lives.

Why are we are here? Not to spend money, buy material things, work our asses off or waste the hours of each precious day we are given!!! We are here to be, simply to be the best we can be in each of ourselves and to fully enjoy this wonderful life we have and have been given because we have been born into this world and are the age we are now, because this is how things are meant to be. We have no idea when this life for each of us will end, yet we continue to abuse it each and every day. Absolutely unreal in each and every way conceivable!!!! We could be taken away from our life as we know it tomorrow and yet we continue to abuse our lives, the people we love or don't love, it doesn't make a difference.

Take a moment each and every day to make a difference, make a change, whatever it is, it doesn't matter how small or how big....but to touch someone in a way that reaches them beyond the sights that they could have seen before that moment is truly amazing in itself. We are all amazing in our own and we are all capable of doing so much in this wonderful world. Many of us choose the path which is not good, an evil way to life by our moments which we exist and that is of course our own choice to make. But we have that and for all of you who are out there wondering what this world is truly about, it is about you, me and us! The power is in our hands to make the little changes which all of us require to continue on, to love life, to smile everyday no matter what the disaster. So what the volcano has stopped travel, shipments, people are stranded.... we are alive! Each of us alive to enjoy where we are to realise we can feel these emotions which are affecting us because of this crazy volcanic ash. The world is the power which we cannot control and for years we have abused this world! The world is in control our all of our ultimate destiny so think about that for one moment. Think about a volcano, a sunami, an earthquake, tornadoes, a hurricane and sooo much more taking affect all together and then add a meteor shower on this world as we know it which would not exist anymore.

Don't abuse the things we have been given so freely and know that each of us can make a difference; even at this point; we can make a different for us, for our children, forever. The future is not something we can control, but we sure can do our best to be our best and make our lives and others we touch....shine!!!!

Find a way to make a difference, even the smallest thing in each day you live and your life will be blessed with what the universe will give you back.

I find a way to love each and every person whom is in my world and those who are not, but may only exist outside of it to affect our world.

I simply love and that is the best I can do each and every day.

Big Love from Solares xxx

Friday, April 16, 2010

Be True to You

So, nothing that we do in life is without circumstantial affect and anyone who thinks that their actions do not have repercussions is not living in this world which is real. I love that life has so many twists and turns, but sometimes things just pose so many other things to think about when we want one particular thing so bad. The things that we decide when we are soooo young are so easy, because we are young and we do not have the maturity or level of life to understand what some of our decisions actually mean. We do not even think about what our decisions mean to life and who it may affect, because usually at the time it is only about us, adventure, enjoying life, loving the moment and everything that life has to offer.

I made a decision a very long time ago to leave my family behind and follow love, which I did and this love took me to places which I could have never imagined. I found love, adventure, friends, happiness, sadness and an awakening to a part of life which I may have never seen if I would not have just gone with my emotions. We are so driven by our emotions, but also by thinking about life so much and sometimes it so unnecessary to go to those levels of thought to not over analyse this wonderful life we live in to understand the things we'll never really understand. I do not regret anything in my life, any decisions and I appreciate that each stage of my life has allowed me to grow in such a different way that gives me experience in each of the decades we are meant to enjoy in life. Be what you are supposed to be, if its 20, be 20, if its 30, be and love your thirties and truly enjoy each stage of your life to grow and experience new adventures. Those of us who understand these levels of life and the ones who will learn, love and be more because you grow as a person, but others will want to stay 21 forever, look back at how fun their lives were, the partying, the drinking, the sex, the drugs, whatever.

What we have to remember is that our firsts are that for a reason and never, not ever will we experience our firsts on the same level again, but remember them for what they are and enjoy them also for the experience we were allowed to have. What we can control and must do is be sure that as we are growing, we make the right decisions for what we truly want at that time and then and only then can we never regret any decision, any moment and memory because we were the ones truly in charge of our destiny with a decision that we made for our own reasons and nobody else. Be in control of you, your life, your destiny and all of those amazing moments will be with you forever. Enjoy your life at every age, your first kiss, your first heartbreak, your first job, your first drink, your first 'true love' and partner in life, your first child....whatever it is at whatever age you will have your first forever. Even at the age of 80, I guarantee you that you will have a first so never, ever look back in life, but just learn from everything and enjoy everything. Always take a positive out of every situation, be happy, smile and move forward.

With each decision we make comes a whole new set of adventure and other decisions to make, but I guarantee you that if you trust yourself and the universe...your life will be fulfilled to no end. Ask the universe for the things you want in life, what you really want, don't be greedy but be true to yourself and it will all come; in time with patience.

Know that life is full of so many things that we could never expect, so day by day live your life to the best you possibly can and rewards will be there in the fact that your life is so wonderful to just be alive and that you have been allowed this time with others as part of your life before they leave this world. I am thankful for so many things in life, but mostly I am thankful to simple be in existence and part of this wonderful world that allows us to prosper as part of its existence. I am grateful for all of my wonders, discovers and emotions which carry me to new levels every single day. I appreciate all of the wonderful people in my life and the wonderous things I see each and every day of my life!

I will await for the universe to show me the way and until then I will live my life day by day until I begin to make further decisions, but the future is only a part of life and the past is something that has passed so the present is what I will focus on forever and enjoy each and every moment without stress, anxiousness or regret.

Whatever you are going through or may have gone through just live in the moment which is just right now and be thankful for those things that allow life to flourish. Remember that it is only the little things in life that make our existence so special and being true to you is what makes us grow through time to the next level of this wonderful world we call our life!!!!

Big Love from Solares and I love you all, everyone for what you truly are and I think you for being so amazing in as part of my life that you can.

Mmmmwwahhhhhh xxxxx




Saturday, February 6, 2010

Show Me The Money

As I continue to live this life in London, every day is a new challenge in such a fast paced city. Capital cities around the globe can be amazing to live in, but also full of temptations and choices we must make everyday about how we want to live our lives. Isn't it funny how you can be in London for a wknd and spend the back end of your monthly salary on 'non tangible' goods such as travel, food, drink, more drink, more travel and there's always more. Take that same wknd and put yourself on a beach with the same person or people, kick back, relax, take off your shoes, open a bottle of wine and enjoy the stars above you. Which is your favorite? And if you chose the later, why do we all choose to stay in such hectic circumstances? Money!!!

We all need money to survive or so they say. I'm not convinced, but I have definitely been able to partake and indulge to extremes. I am 100% guilty of temptation, I think I could put a down payment on a flat with all the bloody handbags I own :) And I'm sure that will make some of you smile, cuz you know its true, but its also so very sad. I suppose that when one has nothing, one does not know the value of the things they do not have. And when one suddenly has the ability to obtain 'things' it becomes exciting, addictive, like a drug that you cannot get enough of. I say that I'm not an addictive person, but then there is shopping?! I suppose the main thing is that we see and understand our patterns to then be in a position to change, learn and grow as the people we are.

I think there are 3 types of people in life. Those who are very happy with simple things, no designer labels, good food on the table, routine and having a pint every weekend at the same local pub. Then there are those people who want money, need money, will do anything for money whether that's selling your soul to your job, sacrificing your family time or nothing at all, some people just have money land in their laps. Finally, there is the middle ground of so many people that exist to have been brought up to work hard for what they have, see their parents work sooo hard to give them the things they need to live life and those very special presents that light up their eyes because even though they are few, they mean so much when given. We are the ones stuck between the nonsense, who wish for a simpler life, but enjoy the temptations of the world. We are always questioning whether we need this new ipod, new mac, new pair of designer shoes or the IT season bag!!!! We like the luxury things of the world, but I believe that each of us given the opportunity would give that all up for a simpler, happy, loving, peaceful way of love where we can truly relax and enjoy.

So, what's the answer? I was hoping you could tell me. Money seems to be the catch 22 of life, we need it to make our place in society or do we? Well, if you live in London its a hard call because its one of the most expensive cities in the world and also one of the most amazing cities in the world. I love London, I love that you can walk the streets at 4am and see people dressed to the nines leaving nightclubs, walk the Thames to see all of the bridges alight with glow or drive your scooter through the city and have your own personal tour of some of the most amazing buildings/architecture in the world! This city is one of opportunity for sure, fun definitely and one of 'Love' is yet to be seen but if you find love in this city it must be strong to keep you as one.

So, what do we really need in this life we live? Actually, we don't need much at all although I know that as our generation grows up it is evident that there is alot we enjoy and enjoy we should as we all work very hard for everything we obtain. Do we know how lucky we are? Some of us do, but not all and it is a constant battle to keep ourselves grounded. When is the last time you did some totally selfless? Volunteered at the local soup kitchen maybe? Gave a few things to charity? Helped a little old lady off the bus or just gave a little smile to the grey haired man u see everyday at the shops? We all need to give more and take less; especially when it comes to money. More importantly we all need to find that place that works for us to ease our lives and makes money less important. Yes, we need money but when you live in surroundings you love, enjoy, have hobbies, have your friends stay, see your family, take a walk, ride a bike you don't need money. One million pounds or the nearest and dearest to you - I know what I would choose and its not manufactured?!

Sometimes I think we all need to take a step back from our lives and slow down the pace. Usually my body does this for me. I have been working 12-14 hour days for the last 5 wks and my body has totally shut down, over, done and I've been stuck in the house, sick as a dog for almost a week now! Why does it take that before we'll listen. We just get caught up in our own lives, forget about what is really important and that old saying "I have to take the work when its there" is a hard one to swallow. My lesson is to figure out where i want to be for me and nobody else. I have to make decisions based on what's best for me and not be lead by emotions, but more instinct. I am questioning my decisions purely on the basis of money and I'm not so sure that's the right thought process, but when in London....... We just get used to a certain comfort factor and sometimes I think we should take ourselves out of that zone, open our eyes and look around the world. Out of site out of mind is so true and you can watch the news, read the papers all you want, but it does not measure up to experience!

So, what is my message all about? Well, its simple. Take time out to think about what you really want and where you really want to be. No rush on this one, take a year, two, three, whatever it takes and take them slow. Don't be in a hurry cuz the old saying one day at a time is the best way to live your life. You may have no idea at this very moment, but in time you will. Something will just happen, appear from nowhere and the path will be evident. This path will take you to a place that will eventually lead you to where you really want to be and in this place money just won't be so important. If you do find yourself at this very moment in a place where money is absolutely essential to survive day to day, have fun then bewarned you need to make a change and fast. Temptation on whatever level is hard to resist, but usually leads to guilt, low emotions or reflection on thoughts like "how could I have done that" , "what was i thinking", its all soul destroying really and the culprite is usually money charged!!!

Set yourself some tests, days out, start off with 50 pounds, dollars, rands, whatever your current currency and see what kind of day it gets ya. Then keep reducing that money by 25% each time until you are pretty low, say 5 pounds in your pocket. I think you will be suprised what you find to do and how you enjoy your days. Plus, it will be fun and you never know this new challenge could lead you somewhere special or to someone special :)

Mainly, as I always say love your life, love yourself, love your friends, love your family, love the moment you are in this very moment and reflect on your journey which brought you to this amazing moment. Stop and take a deep breathe, listen to what is around you and enjoy every second as if it were your last. No regrets, EVER, so get out there and do it, get inspired by life, get on with really and truly living your life.

Signing off Little Miss 'S' who cannot help but be thankful for everything I have been given in this wonderful life I live :)

Monday, January 25, 2010

Life's Little Lessons

Hello fellow followers (well one currently)

Wow that was a long silence between blogs and for this I must reflect on my consuming work life which seems to take over at a moment's notice to only leave me with so little time for my very own.

I don't know when I noticed life's little lessons.... although I remember when mom and dad used to say things like 'you will learn one day' and 'you won't understand until your older'! Well, guess what? They were right all along :)

I suppose my life lessons started when I first felt pain, heartache I mean, real broken down, broken in half, absolutely devastating to the heart kind of stuff. I am a great believer that feeling all of this pain is absolutely and without a shadow of a doubt; essential to move forward in life and learn about who you really are. Before my first experience of heartache I thought I was sad, not being able to go out when I like, my relationships coming to an end, a boy not liking me, whatever the story...they were so sad....NOT! Boy was I in for a realisation. When my husband left me I was only 25 and I had moved clear across the world to be with him from USA to good old England! I was only 20; so did I know any better? NO and guess what? My mom told me so at the time, but I wouldn't listen and of course I should not have listened as its my life to live, learn and move forward with.

I have to say that when my marriage broke down I had never, ever felt this sort of pain, stress, sadness, EVER! I didn't eat for weeks, took a leave of absence from work, didn't leave the house for almost 3 weeks and didn't even see the sunshine for days on end. I couldn't stop thinking about how sad it was, wallowing in my own sorrows and not actually seeing any positivity in what was happening to me. Until one day I woke up and looked out the window to see a glorious bright sunny sky and it just hit me, just like that I felt better! I started to think about how amazing my friends were, how lucky I was to be living in England, what a great job I had, how healthy I was and how now I could just be me again and do what I want to do to repair myself, my heart, my life! What in god's name was I thinking letting all of those glorious days, hours, minutes pass me by when this is my life and I will never, ever get those days back :)

Well, the good news is (thank god I did) I learned so much from that moment on. I opened myself up to see the light and yes, of course I was sad, but then I was happy! Estatically happy until my next lesson, but what I am trying to say is that we all have hard times and they are good, they are great! We have to look at every part of our life, every moment and what happens (no matter how awful it is) and take the good away from what is happening to us. We have to be out of the bubble and able to control our feelings as to not allow ourselves to fall apart! (although sometimes a day of falling apart is necessary)! A night out with the boys and a bottle of whiskey or a night out with the girls and disco dancing in a hot new outfit! Whatever it takes, let it go, get it out and start enjoying your life again :)

I don't care what you are going through, how hard, how difficult, its all part of the process of life and we must experience each of these emotions in equal so that we can eventually be at peace with a whole 100% being of ourselves. There are 1,000s of lessons out there every day to help us get through life and so many of us just let them pass by, right through our fingers. These lessons are like air to us; without them we cannot survive and we will continue to attract the same old lessons of life to learn time and time again.

So, let there be love, let there be pain, let there be happiness and let us be insane, because it all leads to one wonderful place of peace within ourselves to enjoy this wonderful life (our wonderful lives)! You must also think about others and what they are going through because sometimes when you have experienced a tragedy such as illness or death; you are now at a different level of experiencing emotion and may see things in such a different way. As this has occured you may hear people complaining about their lives, such as long work hours or the weather...whatever it is; your first reaction will be "what the hell r they talking about" and of course you may be right! But remember that we all experience pain, emotions at different times in our lives and on different levels; therefore everyone is trying to do the best they can at that very moment. Try to accept people for who they are and maybe help them to see the lighter side of life with your experience, but also remember when to let them go and see the light for themselves.

We cannot help everyone, but there will always be those whom we love so much in life that need us; and our energy is precious so let it go when you know the relationship is one that you respect, admire and love. Remember that this is your life and even though there are so many people that are a part of our lives, you have only one life to live and it is precious, so do it for you!

To some it may sound selfish and to be honest it is, but until you start to focus on you and love yourself inside and out you will never have the life you truly are capable of. So, open your eyes, experience emotions on all levels and learn these lessons in life to keep with you forever!

All I can say is that after the first moment of this emotional pain, I look back now and wonder who that person was. I was vurnerable to everything, everyone and now I am strong, happy, loving and see so many things in such different ways, better ways that make me smile every day! Remember, all that you reflect YOU ARE so send out positive energy and your life will be fulfilled with more than you could ever imagine. Once we understand that life is sometimes out of our control and people also have to go through their own personal tragedies, we'll stop blaming others and stop trying to change the world! We can only do what we can, but believe me it is the little things that matter.

So, watch out for lives little lessons because they are everywhere. Embrace every moment of life and don't take anything for granted! I continue on this path and I believe that I am truly blessed with so much in life. I love my life and I want you to love yours!!!!

Signing off, only for now from the lighter side!!!

Little Miss 'S' xxx