Christmas Day only comes the once a year, but the way we feel should be with us throughout the year!? I have spent xmas alone and the lesson I learned that year was that xmas is only one day of the year and that one day I took time out for myself and enjoyed what I had around me. My life, my health, my home and my wonderful animals.
Now on this day I spend the holidays with my loving family and receive messages from all of my wonderful friends and family who are far away from me in distance, but with me everyday in my heart!
Think of xmas as another day of the year to enjoy our loved ones and appreciate what we have in life. Xmas is not about gifts, presents and spending money in the crazy xmas sales, but it is for spending time with those whom you want in your life and whom you can just sit in a room and say absolutely nothing. Don't be forced to have xmas with those that you feel 'you have to'! Life is way to short and it is for sure not a rehearsal that we have several 'takes' to prepare for.
Go with what you really feel, what you really want and be honest with those you really care about as that is truly a 'real' friend! Don't bottle up your feelings and tell those around you what you think, your thoughts, your love, whatever?! If there is something you really want out of life, do it, find a way and get there no matter what the circumstances!
So, however you feel today, lonely, happy, emotional, loving, estatic.... feel this emotion every day and be able to appreciate it for what it is. We are meant to have so many emotions as our energy allows us and that is one of the many wonders of this life!
I wish you all, whoever you are a wonderful xmas and holiday season! If you are spending xmas on your own, cherish the happy moments of your life, those you love or have loved and you will be filled with these thoughts of wonder all day long!
Christmas Kisses from Solares xxxx
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