Embrace Life with Everything You Have

Everywhere I seem to go or look there is negativity, people veer towards the negative side of subjects rather than looking to the positivity in whatever life brings you on your path in this world. Why is this? I ask myself this same question daily as I was once one of these people in my experience in life, but eventually I saw my error in this thinking and took the brighter side of the walk.

I have lived in different continents, travelled so many countries on this earth and this stands true in each and every location given circumstances particular to each individual but also a large emphasis on how the world affects us as individuals. I've found a way to take negativity out of my life, if it comes my way I just knock it out, kinda like a continual boxing match of life... negativity will always be here knocking at your door, but its up to you to open that door or not! I would like to be like a disease and infect everyone with my positive approach to life so that they can live to their optimum potential in whatever it is they wish to do. We as individuals are capable of so much change, so stand up, be heard and make your path one to be proud of even if it is in the littlest way; it all counts! When you put a penny in your piggy bank it starts to add up and the amount is nomimal its the fact that you are doing it!!!

I believe that no matter how bad a situation; there is always good to be found. Each instance is a lesson in which we must see clearly, find it, learn from it, move on in your life with that lesson and don't ever look back. So I guess what I'm trying to say is embrace the bad, the pain, the heartache but then let it go. Talk to your friends; those who can so dearly for you and allow them into your inner circle so that you have an opportunity to heal, but take heed in knowing that each day after this pain is a day which gets better, the pain lessens, your life gets better and it will if you truly believe in it! I have found many painful instances in life, ones which have broken my heart and to this day I look back at these and thank the universe for this as its made me a better, stronger woman to deal with this life and get the most out of it for myself and those whom I love so very much. The truth is; if things are bad; wait a minute and they will get better, they always do, but sometimes you have to hit rock bottom in order to really want your life to be better :)

I don't know if I've ever hit rock bottom but I have experienced some very dark places in life and for this darkness I'm grateful... continually keeping these instances in my memory just in case I need to go back there as a reminder of how precious life is and why I'm not there at this very moment but here, right now, in the present living this wonderful life that we are so graciously given! Indeed life is a gift and I would not take this lightly as you will never ever be given another gift like this in your entire life, it is your life!

I love my life everyday, I am thankful for my life everyday, I will enjoy my life everyday. I wish you all this same happiness and hope that you will find a way to embrace the life you have no whatever what it gives you. You never know what tomorrow brings and that is what makes life so exciting... what an adventure! Enjoy yours... :)

A Love Like No Other

How many of us really believe in true love? How many of us know when its knocking at our door, recognize the immense sensation of total and utter surrender to it? How many of us are willing to settle for something less than what we would really see in our lives for the sake of being alone? I am proud to say that I am not one of these floating beings who lives their lives in this manner of speaking to settle, EVER!!!

When you see love in others it makes us shiver, like when you see an old couple walking down the road, hand in hand, silent but you can hear their love through the breeze as it cuts past your face. Or the innocent love of two young beings who simply cannot take their eyes of eachother, the first love of your life, the one that makes your heart beat so hard, so intensely that you think it might come right out of your chest. And then there is the love of a mother, a father a child... this love is like no other as it is a connection which is true surrender, an unconditional love for someone that you will always put before yourself, you will always worry about, you will never ever stop loving and you will have this connection far into your life, spiritual life and whatever is out there waiting for us all.

How can people not want this love that I explain? Because the simple fact is that we have all been at one point in our life - damaged goods! Each of us has taken less than we deserve, each of us has put up with things for the sake of the good things; which are not even a good balance for us in the first place. We are all initially so open, so loving, so kind... from a child we have no inhibitions and see the world with such innocence until the 'hurt' takes us over, the pain continues into the years and finally we decide to build, build and build the biggest brick wall in man kind to protect ourselves. We may not even know that we are doing it, but believe you me we are all specialists in this field. You might be the person to throw yourself out there and sleep with whoever you come across, you might be the person to make up every excuse in the book that the person who is trying to give you love isn't right for you, you might be the person who can't image being in a relationship because you have really never ever had a proper one of unity!!! We are all these people and so much more, so many of us looking for that one love who will fulfill us and allow us to flourish through life with ease. I've seen this love in many places and I feel very blessed to have been a part of it through family, friends, even strangers, but for this love I have never truly had myself.

A glimmer of this kind of love can be painful as it seems almost too good to be true, so that you may turn your back and run the other way, but don't run... the only running you should be doing is into this persons' arms. We have all been through pain, grown in ways that we sometimes cannot believe ourselves but the pride we have after the storm has passed will protect us and open our eyes when that love truly does come a knocking.

Be true to who you really are, be open to accept love again, allow yourself to fall, let yourself go and let someone in to your world. We are meant to be with one other in this life, we are meant to be with a partner who makes us feel like no other, the one that brings in the awful fear of loosing them for that fear is the one that is you not imaging your life without them. Imagine that immense feeling and let it in and then imagine not ever having that feeling because you were too scared to allow it in for fear of letting in that pain!? I myself know that this pain will be the best, most amazing pain as it is one of true love that will break you down in ways you never thought imaginable. I wait for this, I will let this in, I will allow love to my door once again and enjoy everything that this brings for at least I will know i am alive with feeling, emotion and most of all love!

Please wait and have faith in a love like no other... it is one which will transform your world to surrender in ways to one person that you have never done before. Keep your eyes open and don't look but allow this love to find you... I promise it will and you will never ever look back again! Solares Way to Love Life and everything this wonderful world has to bring.... xxx

We are all Perfect!!!!

Wow, I never knew how hard it would be to keep up with a blog... but my last post says it all. So, its a new year and a time to think about what is ahead or what we would like to be ahead as to set our aspirations for another year. The most important thing is simply to be committed to yourself, to realise that you can't do everything at once, but to set some realistic goals for the year which are staggered throughout the year. So, listen to your mind, listen to your body and do what feels right, don't push yourself into a staggering detox on the 1st January - that's madness!!! OR throw yourself at the gym life you've never done before, because your really have never done before... that is truly the quickest way to injure yourself or cause some serious damage to your precious limbs. Do it all slowly, staggered and ease yourself into the way of life that you want forever, not just for the first month of 2011.

Ok, so easy to say hey, but I have many of those resolutions with some physical, some mental, others for work, personal and of course its all about my life. I have this one and only life on this earth for these precious years which I truly treasure. I want to do the best I possible can for this life I have been given, to do the best for my gracious DNA, my healthy body, my intelligent mind and of course my creative voices whom seem to talk to me more and more often. Remember to listen to your voices as they are the things that your subconcious is trying to remind you of, we are here, waiting for you to make your move to do what is ultimately best for you. You know that feeling when you make a decision and everything falls into place? It could be a man, it could be your work, it could be your family, it could be anything but that feeling is like other, because doors just open before your eyes. It seems as though things are happening so easily because they are and it is no coincidence; its because you made the right decision and that is what life is all about. You have a perfect life, we all have a perfect life and its up to us to continue on that path so you are your own maker. Some of us feel we'll never achieve perfection, but I tell you now that we are all perfect; we were born perfect.

I was in a shop the other day and these girls were chatting to me about the good ole' USA, saying how different states are so different and of course the age old conversation of CA came into play. They said that their opinion of CA is clearly everyone wants to be perfect, the bodies, the golden skin, the overhauls of surgical work.... WOW!!! So, I turned around and said that we are all perfect, each one of us is amazing in how we were conceived and right now, this very moment we are all perfect! The word in itself means to some; so different to what it truly should be and in my eyes perfect is simply believing in who you are, your life, your goals, your health, just simply living life in a way in which you are proud of and getting better at it, growing as a person each and every year, loving each era you are in, enjoying every age bracket and simply experiencing this great life, the earth, the world in which we live in. The greatness of God created is all, for us, to live and experience perfection!

So, think about what it is you desire this year, how can you grow to do more, get more out of life, help others, help the world, develop your being to another level in life and one in which you are truly proud of. I myself have great things ahead, so many things I know want to do that I must get moving. My whole conception of enjoyment has changed so much over the past 5 years and it is now that I truly am beginning to understand what is important to me in life, what I want out of life and a very clear direction on how I want to live my life. I wish all of this for each and every one of you, take your time, enjoy the days, months, years and remember that you are perfect, the world is perfect.... only we can alter this state in each of us and the world, we have ultimate control and can truly make a difference so find a way, find your way and make it happen! Its the best rush you will ever experience and as always love life, love yourself, love the world, just love love love and each day will get better and better! Thank you for listening, thank you for loving and all of my love to you all who need a little bit more today or any day! Little Miss 'S'! xxx